This ones for you. Because even though right now you don’t feel like you are.
You are special. One of a kind. Spectacular. Beautiful. Compassionate. Altruistic.
Impossible to recreate.
Deep down, I know you know this but right now, believe it. I’m telling you so that you can start to believe it. I want for you to fully understand that there is not one other person on this Earth that is like you. That is so crazy. Your smile, your dimples, your laugh! There’s only one. Can you really grasp that? This means that no one, no one can take this away from you. No one can make you less of you. No matter what happens, you have left an imprint on this planet and it only gets better. You haven’t even met your full potential. There’s more, so much more. Let’s live in this! This is the new book, with new, blank pages and new paths and new journeys to take. I will be here to hold your hand tight and run with you or to skip or to walk, whatever you need.
“Sisters are for sharing laughter and wiping tears.” – Author Unknown
Right now, your thoughts may be to compare yourself, to ask, to question and wonder what went wrong.
Life. Life isn’t fair but it is the “why” and you may never understand. I wish you could and I wish it was a different way but this is a tough experience. This is life, this is just an experience that you will have under your belt. This is a though or a memory that you will look back on and use as an example of something you have overcome. You are tougher than this. You’re strong, you have grit. Show it! Show your resilience and don’t let it go right now! Grab on to the lapels of life and make. it. yours.
“I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life’s a bitch. You’ve got to go out and kick ass.” – Maya Angelou
There is a beauty in growth and also, in letting go. Letting go is something we learn as we grow older. Not everything is meant to be kept. Not every person we meet is meant to stay. That hurts, right? No. What hurts more is hanging on, hanging on to something that is not yours.
There’s a true and secret beauty in letting go.
Caterpillars show us this every day. When they are ready to grow, they get all nice and warm into their cocoon. They spend lots of time with this cocoon. This cocoon is all they have for a great period of time. In fact, they even become ONE with that cocoon. But then, caterpillars shed that cocoon to become butterflies. Do they hold onto the cocoon? Do they sit on the leaf for forever? No! They fly. They literally fly! So, fly, babygirl.
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” – Maya Angelou
There is only one last thing to share and it is my favorite verse in the Bible. The truth in this verse is astounding to me. Women were made out of strength and we can tap into this at any time but I notice that we tap into this the most when we go through trial and tribulation. I have surprised myself in these times and you will too. So, hang on to this and meditate on the word ‘strength’.
Because it flows through your veins.
It’s written like a tattoo on your fists.
It’s there behind every action that you make. It is a part of you.
You can take on anything that comes. You are stronger than you can fathom.
“but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” – Isaiah 40:31